6 January 2025
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The start of a new year often feels like a fresh beginning - a chance to wipe the slate clean and step into the best version of ourselves. We might feel inspired by TikToks showing perfectly curated planners or Instagram posts of people declaring their ambitious 2025 goals.
But by February, that planner might be forgotten, and those goals can feel like just another source of stress. If this sounds familiar, take a deep breath. We're not alone, and more importantly, we're not failing.
In this post, we'll explore why perfectionism might be sabotaging our resolutions, how to shift our mindset toward progress, and why it's okay and sometimes necessary to embrace imperfection when working on ourselves.
Perfectionism often starts with good intentions: the desire to do our best and achieve something meaningful. But it can quickly spiral into a cycle of impossible standards and self-criticism. The result? Burnout, procrastination, and the temptation to give up entirely when things don't go exactly as planned.
Think of it like this: we commit to studying for three hours every night to improve our grades. Then life gets busy, and we miss a few days. Instead of seeing progress, we focus on those missed days and feel like a failure. Perfectionism convinces us that anything less than 100% isn't good enough, but the truth is that growth happens in messy and sometimes unpredictable patterns.
Perfectionism can often lead to higher levels of anxiety and lower levels of self-esteem. Chasing the idea of 'perfection' is exhausting and the added pressure can make it more difficult to stick with goals for a long time.
Rather than striving for perfection, what if we aimed for progress instead? Progress doesn't demand flawless execution, it values consistent effort, no matter how small. Shifting our focus in this way can make our resolutions feel more manageable and rewarding.
The key is to allow ourselves room to grow without expecting perfection. Change isn't about proving we can do everything right, it's about showing up for ourselves, even when it's hard.
New Year's resolutions often come with an unspoken pressure to change everything overnight. But the truth is, meaningful change doesn't happen in a straight line - it's full of ups, downs, and setbacks which is completely normal.
Success isn't about sticking to a perfect plan or meeting every goal without faltering. It's about progress. It's about learning to pick ourselves up when things don't go as planned. It's about showing up, imperfections and all, and doing the best we can in that moment.
So, as we all step into the new year, let's remember: we don't have to be perfect to make progress. Let's celebrate our efforts, embrace our growth, and let go of the pressure to get everything right. We've got this.
Article date 6th January 2025
Article written by Miguel De Rama, Year 13 A level Student